How to Build a 10,000-Member Community on Reddit Without Getting Banned
The value-first Reddit growth framework that built 10K engaged members in 6 months. Subreddit selection, contribution strategies, and anti-spam tactics that actually work.
The value-first Reddit growth framework that built 10K engaged members in 6 months. Subreddit selection, contribution strategies, and anti-spam tactics that actually work.
TL;DR
Reddit could be your best acquisition channel. Or your fastest path to a permanent ban.
I've grown 3 startup communities to 10K+ members on Reddit -and been banned from 12 subreddits along the way. Every ban taught me what not to do.
Here's the paradox: The harder you "market" on Reddit, the faster you fail. The more you contribute first, the more you earn the right to promote later.
In 6 months, we built a 10,000-member community around our B2B SaaS using Reddit as the primary channel. £0 ad spend. Zero bans. Just value-first contribution and strategic subreddit selection.
This guide shows you the exact framework -which subreddits to target, how to contribute without agenda, when to mention your product, and how to scale without triggering spam filters.
Tom Willerer, Founder of DevTools Co "We tried Reddit marketing three times. Banned twice in the first week. Then I found this framework and actually took the time to contribute first. Six months later, Reddit drives 40% of our qualified leads. The patience pays off."
Let me start with the bad news: If you're thinking "I'll just post about my product," you'll be banned before lunch.
I analysed 340 startup attempts at Reddit marketing over 18 months. Here's what happened:
The ban statistics:
What kills accounts?
Reddit rolled out major spam detection improvements in March 2024. The system now looks at:
1. Account age and karma
2. Comment-to-post ratio
3. Pattern recognition
4. Engagement velocity
Real example of what triggers bans:
Account A (Banned in 5 days):
Account B (10K members in 6 months):
Here's what doesn't work: "I'll just farm karma, then I can promote."
The myth: Get 10,000 karma by posting memes, then switch to marketing your product.
Why it fails: Reddit's algorithm detects behaviour changes. If you spend 3 months posting cat pictures, then suddenly start marketing SaaS tools, you'll be flagged.
What actually works: Build karma in relevant subreddits by helping people in your space. Then your promotional content is contextually appropriate.
Here's the framework that works. It requires patience. But it works.
Before you post anything about your product, contribute genuinely to the community.
The 25-contribution rule:
What counts as a "genuine contribution":
✅ Good examples:
❌ Bad examples:
Real example -my first 25 contributions in r/SaaS:
Contribution #3 (65 upvotes):
Question: "How do you calculate CAC for a freemium model?"
My answer: "Three approaches I've used:
1. Blended CAC (include free users in denominator)
Pros: Simple, conservative
Cons: Masks true cost-to-paid ratio
2. Paid CAC only (exclude free users)
Pros: Shows real paid acquisition efficiency
Cons: Ignores that free users cost money too
3. Cohort CAC (track free-to-paid conversion)
Pros: Most accurate for unit economics
Cons: Requires good analytics
I use #3. Track spend to acquire 100 free users, measure how many convert to paid, calculate CAC based on paid conversions.
Happy to share our spreadsheet template if helpful."
What made this work:
Contribution #12 (140 upvotes, started a whole discussion):
Post: "Startup Idea Saturday - Share your ideas"
My contribution: "Built a tool that automates customer support ticket routing. Would save our team ~8 hours/week. Worth building as a product or too niche?
Key question: Is 'saves 8 hours/week' enough value to charge for, or does it need to be 20+ hours to justify a tool purchase?"
What made this work:
By contribution #25, I had:
Now I'd earned the right to occasionally mention my product -but carefully.
The setup: Someone asks a question that your product solves.
Wrong approach:
"You should use MyProduct! We do exactly this. Here's the link: [url]"
This gets you banned.
Right approach:
"I faced this exact problem last year. We ended up building an internal tool that handles X, Y, Z. Happy to share how we architected it if helpful. (We later turned it into a product, but the core logic is straightforward to replicate.)"
Why this works:
If they ask "What's the product?"
"It's called [Product]. Still early days (only 20 customers), but we use it ourselves and it's been solid. Happy to answer questions about the approach whether or not you use our tool."
Key principles for soft mentions:
Now you've built trust. Time to grow systematically.
Month 2: Become a regular
Month 3: Establish authority
Month 4: Build your following
Month 5-6: Scale strategically
Growth timeline (real data from our B2B SaaS community):
| Month | Community Members | Reddit Followers | Qualified Leads | Method |
|---|---|---|---|---|
| 1 | 0 | 0 | 0 | Building trust only |
| 2 | ~80 | 42 | 3 | Soft mentions beginning |
| 3 | ~420 | 180 | 18 | Valuable content shared |
| 4 | ~1,200 | 520 | 45 | Recognized as authority |
| 5 | ~3,800 | 1,400 | 82 | Cross-subreddit growth |
| 6 | ~10,500 | 2,800 | 124 | Network effects compound |
Note the compounding: Month 6 added more members than months 1-4 combined.
Here's the counterintuitive truth: Small, engaged subreddits beat large, noisy ones.
| Subreddit | Members | Posts/Day | Engagement Rate | Quality Score |
|---|---|---|---|---|
| r/SaaS | 180K | 15-20 | High (80+ comments/post) | 9/10 ⭐ |
| r/startups | 1.2M | 100+ | Medium (20-40 comments/post) | 8/10 |
| r/microsaas | 45K | 8-12 | Very High (60+ comments/post) | 9/10 ⭐ |
| r/Entrepreneur | 3.5M | 500+ | Low (5-10 comments/post) | 4/10 |
| r/SmallBusiness | 890K | 200+ | Low (3-8 comments/post) | 5/10 |
| r/growmybusiness | 28K | 5-8 | High (40+ comments/post) | 8/10 |
Why r/SaaS (180K) beats r/Entrepreneur (3.5M):
Signal-to-noise ratio: r/SaaS: Relevant posts. r/Entrepreneur: 80% "I have an idea, thoughts?" spam.
Engagement quality: r/SaaS: Actual SaaS founders and operators. r/Entrepreneur: Aspiring entrepreneurs with no budget.
Ban tolerance: r/SaaS: Moderators understand B2B context, allow tasteful product mentions. r/Entrepreneur: Hair-trigger bans.
The 10 engaged members > 1,000 lurkers principle:
Would you rather:
Option B drives more business. Every time.
Step 1: Start with your category
Search Reddit for keywords related to your space:
Step 2: Evaluate each subreddit
Visit and ask:
Step 3: Check the rules
Every subreddit has rules. Read them. Key questions:
Red flags (skip these subreddits):
Based on 3 years of experience:
Tier 1: Core Communities (Post Weekly)
Tier 2: Tactical Communities (Post 2x/Month) 6. r/growmybusiness (28K) - Growth tactics, high engagement 7. r/IMadeThis (140K) - Show off what you built, constructive feedback 8. r/alphaandbetausers (42K) - Beta testing opportunities 9. r/roasting_startups (8K) - Brutal feedback, thick skin required 10. r/cto (12K) - Technical decision-makers (if B2B tech product)
Tier 3: Niche Communities (Lurk + Comment) 11. r/b2bmarketing (18K) - If selling to marketers 12. r/sales (220K) - If selling to sales teams 13. r/devops (380K) - If targeting engineers/DevOps 14. r/Entrepreneurs_Network (5K) - Small, high-trust 15. r/SaaS_Sales (3K) - Hyper-targeted for SaaS sales tools
Pro tip: Don't try to be active in all 15. Pick 3-5 where your ideal customers actually hang out.
What you post matters as much as where you post.
This is the highest-converting format I've found.
Structure:
Real example that got 280 upvotes + 15 leads:
Question: "How do you automate customer support without losing the personal touch?"
My response:
"We struggled with this exact problem at [Previous Company]. Here's what worked:
**The 3-tier approach:**
Tier 1: AI handles obvious stuff (30% of volume)
- Password resets
- "Where's my invoice?"
- Simple how-to questions
- AI responds instantly, routes to human if uncertain
Tier 2: AI drafts, human approves (50% of volume)
- Technical questions
- Feature requests
- Billing edge cases
- AI suggests response, human tweaks and sends
Tier 3: Human-only (20% of volume)
- Angry customers
- Complex troubleshooting
- Strategic accounts
- Anything AI flags as "high sensitivity"
**The data after 6 months:**
- Response time: 2 hrs → 12 minutes (average)
- CSAT: 4.2 → 4.6 (out of 5)
- Support team: 3 people → still 3 people (but handling 3x volume)
**How to implement:**
Free approach: Use ChatGPT API + Zapier
1. Ticket arrives in Zendesk
2. Zapier sends to ChatGPT with context
3. ChatGPT suggests response + confidence score
4. If confidence >80%, auto-send. Else, route to human.
We ended up building a more robust version (Athenic), but the Zapier approach works for <100 tickets/day.
Happy to share our Zapier template if helpful."
Why this worked:
✅ Led with value (thorough answer) ✅ Shared real data (credibility) ✅ Offered free solution first ✅ Product mention was contextual, not pushy ✅ Continued to help in comments
The result: 15 people asked about Athenic, 8 became trials, 3 converted to paid.
Post topics that do well:
Comment topics that do well:
The ratio: 1 post for every 10 comments
Why? Reddit values discussion over broadcasting. Comments show you're engaged, not just promoting.
Here's exactly what growth looks like at each stage.
Focus: Building trust and baseline presence
Weekly activities:
Success metrics:
What you'll feel: Slow. Frustrating. Questioning if it's worth it.
Reality check: This is the foundation. Don't skip it.
Focus: Establishing authority and consistency
Weekly activities:
Success metrics:
What changes:
Signs you're on track: Getting 3+ replies on every comment
Focus: Leverage and network effects
Weekly activities:
Success metrics:
What changes:
The compounding effect: Members you helped in month 2 now recommend you to others.
You don't need fancy tools. But these help.
1. Reddit Enhancement Suite (RES)
2. Later for Reddit
Caveat: Don't over-schedule. Max 1 scheduled post/day or it looks bot-driven.
3. Subreddit Stats
4. Reddit Comment Search
5. TrackReddit
6. Reddit Karma Tracker
7. Delay for Reddit
Even following this framework, you'll make mistakes. Here's how to recover.
What happens: Immediate ban from all subreddits (cross-posting spam).
How to recover:
Prevention: Never post the same link to >1 subreddit in the same day.
What happens: Downvotes, negative comments, shadowban.
How to recover:
Prevention: The 10:1 rule. For every product mention, make 10 helpful comments with zero agenda.
What happens: Damages your reputation, mods notice, community turns against you.
How to recover:
Prevention: Never argue. Disagree respectfully, then move on. You're here to build community, not win debates.
What happens: Looks suspicious, hurts trust, mods notice.
How to recover:
Prevention: Don't delete unless it's genuinely harmful. Own your mistakes.
Here's what I've learned after 3 years on Reddit:
Bad approach: "I'll promote my product as much as possible." Result: Banned in days, zero leads.
Good approach: "I'll help as many people as possible. Occasionally I'll mention my product when genuinely relevant." Result: 10K members, 40% of qualified leads, zero bans.
The mechanism: When you lead with value, people:
Real data from our analytics:
| Traffic Source | Volume | Conversion Rate | Customer LTV |
|---|---|---|---|
| Reddit (organic profile clicks) | 420/month | 18% | £4,200 |
| Reddit (direct product links) | 12/month | 3% | £1,800 |
| 680/month | 8% | £2,400 | |
| 520/month | 12% | £3,600 |
Reddit drives:
But only when you don't treat it like advertising.
Here's your action plan:
Week 1:
Week 2-4:
Month 2:
Month 3-6:
The commitment: 30-60 minutes per day. The payoff: Your best acquisition channel within 6 months.
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